How To Know What A Woman Plan To Do With You
Copyright © 2008 by Dr.J.AMcBean Library of Congress Washington.D.C.20559
E very female animal let the male fight and then she chooses the strongest one who is the winner to be her mate. Not so with women, women choose the weakest man, one that she thinks she can manipulate. So when a woman choose a man little did he know she already underrated him. Then when she found out that this man is not so easy after all as she thinks she is disappointed and begin to disdain him. Women love weak men, weak men can be use, be led.
WHERE I GET MINE EDUCATION ON WOMEN.
Living with women does not mean you know women; you must work with them and be privilege to be the only man working among them. Then you have to know how to listen but pretend to be reading, sleeping or just not interested in what they are saying.
I work in one garment factory for five years and work in another one for three years. Then on coming to the USA I worked in nursing homes for some sixteen years. All those time I work among women. Women crush bottles and put it in men food. Feed some of them rat poisoned, provoke some and get them arrested, blame some for molesting the children and sent them to prison, then came to the job and in the lunch room boasted all about it. Get away with it over and over again. Police believe women, judge believes women, and I believe women. Women know that. I saw a police beat up a boy just on a promise from a woman. With a smile men fall at women feet and do what women want them to do. A woman knows that and capitalized on that.
It is never good to fight a battle you can never win. Since you wish to commit suicide why not just do it yourself? No man can fight like a woman. A man is more quickly to fight a physical battle, slapping the woman around and shouting. But this is not a woman’s kind of battle, and it is not a wise things for a man to do. Domestic violence as causes the death of thousand of women yearly, and more men are in prison for domestic violence than any thing else.
YOU MUST KNOW WHEN A WOMAN SPIRIT IS NOT WITH YOU.
It is important to know when a woman is not with you but are still living with you. Some women live with the man, save her money and spent his, buy a house and move out leave him in debts. She will not tell you that she hates and scorned you, you will have to notice little things and know.
WATCHING THE TIP OF THE ICEBERG.
The first thing you need to know is that you never own a woman, she is married to you but you do not own her, If you can accept this fact you are halfway winning a battle.
You will have to keep that woman from getting under your skin, getting you angry, doing and saying little things that will upset you, and cause you to act un-calculated.
ILL FEELINGS.
Sirach 7:26. “If you have a wife, let her not seem odious to you; but where there is ill-feelings, trust her not.”
The New American Bible. Saint Joseph Edition.
Ill-feelings in a woman cannot hide, when people do not like each other they cannot speak peaceable to each other.
Genesis 37:4 (KJV) And when his brethren saw that their father loved him more than all his brethren, they hated him, and could not speak peaceably unto him.
ILL FEELINGS COMES ABOUT BECAUSE OF HATE.
Ephes. 5:28 (KJV)So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
Titus 2:4 (KJV)That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
The bible commanded the husband in Ephes 5:28 to love his wife, and the Bible commanded the woman in Titus 2:4 to love her husband. The love that it is talking about her is not a feelings but a doing. Because this is a doing any body can love any body.
If she cannot hold a conversation without sarcasm, and cause it to end in too second after starting it, she is not with you. If a woman pretends not to see you, you must pretend not to see her. If you and her live together, do every thing to prevent a confrontation. If she is not talking to you, do not talk to her until you have to. Pay her what you owed her. Keep your shoes and sacks in a tidy manner; remove all that will cause a contention.
A woman know her husband social security number, his driver’s documentation number, bank book numbers, she know where all his important documentation are kept. But guest what? He has never seen not even one of her cancel checks, nor knows where any of her stuff is kept. Most of the times none of those things are keep in her home, they are with her sisters, or friends. One lady I know save all her money in her aunt’s name.
DO WHAT THE WOMAN IS DOING.
The reason why men and women are having relationship problems is due to the women perceptions and mentality. You will go into a club with fifty women and ten men. You will notice that every woman in that club act like they are the only woman in that club that have a vagina. The article might sound like the author hate women, but I do not. To fix a problem, we have to deal with the problem. If you are going to kill a snake, it is not wise to hold on to his tail while his head is free to move around.
Women never use weapons if it is not effective. Any weapons that a woman is using against you the man is the same weapons that you must use. If she pretends to be better than you the man that is what you the man must do. Women cannot take the counter action that their actions cause. When my prejudice co-workers pretend like I am not in the room, I also pretend like they are not in the room, then they melt down. They cannot take what they give. If a woman feels offended because you desire her, then stop desiring her.
If she is using sex to manipulate the marriage that is what you the man must use. If she is keeping herself away from you that is what you must do. Some time you just have to use fire to fight fire. This will bring her to the bargaining table, where she is willing to sit down and talk about the problems and get the marriage back in harmony. If she see that the weapons that she is using is taking affect on you the man she will continue using it. I find out that when people are biting me telling them to stop does not help, but when I bite them back they stop.
If she saves her money by herself you must save your money by yourself. If she is not having sex with you, you must refuse to push yourself upon her, showing yourself to be needy. Women never show themselves to be needy. Women always have an alternative, she never leave a man until she has one to replace him. Any time you see her start to behave cocky every things almost is in place for she to drop you. She will not tell you when she is leaving nor tell you where she is going, that is what you must do.
LET STUPIDITY RUN IT COURSE.
A man will be arguing with his wife about her overspending attitude. She refuses to listen to what he is saying; instead she went out and tries to loose ten pound of her body weight, like losing weight and slimming down is going to solve the problems. They have this notion that men are crazy about slim women, and if they slim down it will make the man soften up and let her do as she likes.
DO NOT MAKE HER GET YOU IN TROUBLE.
Never love a woman more than how she loves you. Never fall in love with a woman deeper than how she is in love with you. Never let a woman actions bother you. Never love a woman to the point that when she leaves you your world end. You must be able to control your anger. Never try to control a woman that resisting, it is like saving a drowning man who is still struggling, she will drag you down with herself. You must be able to cook your own food. Once you find out that a woman is not with you, you must stop eating her food. Many a man has become impotent little before the woman leave them because she put something in his food. Before she leaves you she is going to try to get you arrested, or bankrupt.
THREE THINGS TO REMEMBER WHEN DEALING WITH WOMEN.
There is nothing a woman will not do for a man and there is nothing she will not do to him.
SOMETIME ONLY CHRIST JESUS CAN HELP US:
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
LOOK AT THE BENEFITS OF BECOMING A CHRISTIAN:
How does a person become a Christian, and are sure that he/she is save? First the person must know that he/she is a sinner and need deliverance from the lord.
Romans 3:23 (KJV) for all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
Galatians 3:22 (KJV) But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT THERE IS A GOD:
Hebrews 11:6 NKJV But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD IS READY TO FORGIVE HIM:
Isaiah 55:7 (KJV)Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the Lord, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
THE SINNER MUST BELIEVE THAT CHRIST DIED FOR HIM:
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly.
Romans 5:8 (KJV)But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
1 Cor. 15:3-8 (KJV) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; [4] And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures: [5] And that he was seen of Cephas, then of the twelve: [6] After that, he was seen of above five hundred brethren at once; of whom the greater part remain unto this present, but some are fallen asleep. [7] After that, he was seen of James; then of all the apostles. [8] And last of all he was seen of me also, as of one born out of due time.
MUST BELIEVE THAT GOD CAN KEEP HIM:
Ephes. 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
Jude 1:24 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to keep you from falling, and to present you faultless before the presence of his glory with exceeding joy,
PERFECTING THE SAINTS IS A WORK OF GOD:
1 Peter 5:10 (KJV) But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, establish, strengthen, settle you.
THE SINNER MUST KNOW THAT ONLY JESUS CAN SAVE THEM:
Acts 4:12 (KJV) Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
THE SINNER MUST MAKE A DECISION TODAY:
Isaiah 1:18 (KJV) Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.
2 Cor. 6:2 (KJV) (For he saith, I have heard thee in a time accepted, and in the day of salvation have I succoured thee: behold, now is the accepted time; behold, now is the day of salvation.)
BOW YOUR HEAD AND PRAY THIS PRAYER:
Lord I am a sinner and need your salvation. Forgive all my sins. I accept your son Jesus as my savior today.
We can sing with the song writer" I rise walk in heaven’s own light above the world and sin with heart made pure and garments white, and Christ en-throned with in. The cleansing stream I see I see I plunge, and O It cleans-eth me. O praise the Lord, it cleans-eth me, it cleans-eth me yes, cleans-eth me."
DROP ALL PRE-CONCEIVE IDEAS OF CHRISTIANITY:
Drop all preconceived ideas of Christianity because these conflict with the reality of Christianity. The lord will live the life through you day by day. You do not drop things from your life on your own. The spirit of God will walk you out of sins in his own time.
FIRST HUMBLING YOU:
Ephes. 2:8-9 (KJV)For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: [9] Not of works, lest any man should boast.
If you stop sins and get holy before God’s timing you will begin to boast how it is your own magnetism got you so far, then you became a source of discouragement to others. Therefore, you are going to stuck upon a sin or two. The sin always getting the better of you. This will push you to always accept God’s grace, and to see your own frailness.
1 John 1:8 (KJV) If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
TO CONTINUE GROWING IN GOD:
1 Peter 2:2 (KJV) As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that ye may grow thereby:
2 Peter 1:5-10 (NKJV) But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, 6 to knowledge self-control, to self-control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, 7 to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. 8 For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. 9 For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins. 10 Therefore, brethren, be even more diligent to make your call and election sure, for if you do these things you will never stumble.
FINDING OUT YOUR CALLING:
When I was newly save, the believers always, ask me if I know the will of God for my life! I never really know what they were talking about. Every person that was saved had a mission and a gift. However, because you are just a babe in Christ you do not know any of these. As you go on with the lord his will for you will unfolds day bay day. Do not run off and make any big commitment. Your mate has to be tailor made for you by God. You are now a citizen of heaven. Heaven does not rule by democracy. You cannot serve God with democratic mind set.
WHAT YOU MUST DROP OFF:
Hebrews 12:1 (Living Bible) Since we have such a huge crowd of men of faith watching us from the grandstands, let us strip off anything that slows us down or holds us back, and especially those sins that wrap themselves so tightly around our feet and trip us up; and let us run with patience the particular race that God has set before us.
Ephes. 4:31 (Living Bible) Stop being mean, bad-tempered, and angry. Quarreling, harsh words, and dislike of others should have no place in your lives.
Col. 3:8 (Living Bible) but now is the time to cast off and throw away all these rotten garments of anger, hatred, cursing, and dirty language.
GET A GOOD BIBLE, AND FIND A GOOD CHURCH:
One of the best Bibles out there is the New King James Version. Dake’s annotated Bible is very good. Next, you need a living bible to make some thing simple.
Hebrews 10:25 (Living Bible) Let us not neglect our church meetings, as some people do, but encourage and warn each other, especially now that the day of his coming back again is drawing near.
PROTECTING YOURSELF FROM BEING SPOILED BY MAN:
Col. 2:8 (KJV)Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ.
Hebrews 13:9 (KJV) Be not carried about with divers and strange doctrines. For it is a good thing that the heart be established with grace; not with meats, which have not profited them that have been occupied therein.
Seven Ways that People Can Spoil Christians:
1. Through philosophy (Col. 2:8)
2. Through vain deceit (Col. 2:4,8,18-19)
3. Through human traditions (Col. 2:8)
4. Through human religion and world principles contrary to the gospel (Col. 2:8,14-23; note, §Galatians 4:3)
5. Through circumcision (Col. 2:11-13; Acts 15:1; Romans 4:9-16; Galatians 5:1-11)
6. Through the law of Moses, demanding observance of the laws on meats, drinks, holy days, new moons, feasts, and sabbaths (Col. 2:14-17)
7. Through cults that puff up and imitate the gospel (Col. 2:18-23)
By all these means, unsuspecting souls are being carried off as plunder and booty by false teachers. The founders of false religions and human philosophies which pamper the flesh and give their victims elated feelings of importance make an appeal to them.
Christianity is loaded down with some false concept. Some little believe system, which are spread by false believers. One of such teaching is that you must “Look like Christians” How does Christians look? Genuine Christianity is not an external thing but of the heart and spirit.
Micah 6:8 (KJV)He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the Lord require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?
When cults capture a newly converted Christians, the cult first job on that new believer is to close their mind. Preventing the new believer from reading any material from other churches. So that new believer will never get out of their trap.
YOUR HORMONE DOES NOT STOP WORKING WITH CHRISTIANITY:
Philip. 3:20-21 (KJV)For our conversation is in heaven; from whence also we look for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ: [21] Who shall change our vile body, that it may be fashioned like unto his glorious body, according to the working whereby he is able even to subdue all things unto himself.
Romans 8:23 (KJV) And not only they, but ourselves also, which have the firstfruits of the Spirit, even we ourselves groan within ourselves, waiting for the adoption, to wit, the redemption of our body.
Our bodies were not save at conversion. The work of redemption took place in your spirit man. Our body will be redeemed at the return of our lord. We are still waiting for the redemption of our body.
According to Philip 3:20-21 and Romans 8:23. You are still going to have urges. You have to present your body to the lord as a living sacrifice. Not dead one. Living sacrifice give trouble, you will have trouble keeping that body tied to the altar. However, as you and I grow in the lord what seem impossible will be quite possible.
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