How To Read A Woman Like A Book
By Dr. James. A McBean D.Th., MCC
Copyright © 2008 Library of Congress
Washington.D.C.20559
T he way a woman feels through the day will determine how she act and react to ever situation. A smart man will not take every thing a woman say or do personally. A woman is like a dream, some dream has no meaning at all, therefore, it does not make sense loose the rest of your sleep over it. A girl passes by and gives a man a go to hell look, and by twelve noons that same day, she got pregnant for him.
Over confidence is the death of every woman. A woman will be in a crowd of one hundred women, and each women see themselves as the only woman there with a vagina. A man cannot get help any where else. Therefore, most women have a cocky attitude about them.
When a woman suddenly get difficult to understand, is because there is something that she wanted the man to do. But, she want him to figure it out for himself. The problem is this: Sometime men cannot figure themselves out much more to spent the time to figure out women. Men prefers to move on to another available woman.
Do Not Brush Aside very thing She Say And Do.
Watch this! At the same time a man that closes his eyes when dealing with women are only asking for trouble. Watch this now! Smart men make women thing that they do not know, and they do not see what women are up to.
It was not long after my wife and I got married that we ran into marital difficulties. I went to the library and got some material and "Reading a woman like a book" When the materials begin to come home to me, I drop flat on my back, and ask. How could I be so stupid? And why is it that no one teaches me these things? I begin to have flash back. Many of the "No" That I got from women was a "yes"
The Body language, And The Verbal, Language Must Agree.
If the woman's body language and her verbal language conflict do what her body language, say. If a woman told you to move out of her face, at the same time she is holding on to you, and is pulling you onto her. She is speaking in a sarcastic language. She is having fun with you. Actually, she likes the man a lot. In a love making if she scream out. "You are killing me, stop it! "At the same time she is holding on to you, she love what she is getting and want it to continue, by all means keep digging her.
Constantly Griping.
If she constantly griping and complaining, and what she is saying is not making sense. Sometime she thinks that she is not getting enough attention, or there could be ill feelings. She has a bone to pick with the man, but do not know how to come straight out and say it. Sometimes somebody told her something, and if she says what is the problem, she runs the risk of revealing the person that gives her the piece of bad news. She want to get the problem resolve, but fear of revealing the truth as to how she know.
When You Cannot Understand Her.
It is not an accident that some man suddenly cannot understand their women. Women know that when men cannot understand something, they either try harder or walk way from it. Sometime she is asking the man to leave her place of residency, but find it difficult to put it in words. Years ago, my self and a friend started up a business in Jamaica. As soon, as the money begins to come in, I suddenly cannot understand the man any more, he is not making any sense. Nothing he say are do is making any sense. Finally, I pulled out of the business and leave it to him alone. I found out that he wanted to phase me out and bring in one of his friends. When the friend came in, the friend makes him leave and take the business that we both set up. Sometime a woman want the man to leave, but because the man invest so much in her, she does not know how to put in words, so she uses contrary motions, or actions, hoping that the man will pick up on it and leave. Later if thing is going down hill for her, she can always retrieve him back, by telling him she never ask him to leave in the first place.
Understanding A Woman's Mood.
Understanding a woman's mood is very important. Estrogen plays a very important role in a woman being moody. Menopause also plays another role in a woman's mood. Therefore, a woman can be very moody with no hard feeling or ill feelings attaches to it.
If A Woman Is Angry With A Man, The Man Should Run.
Proverbs 21:19 (KJV) It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Proverbs 27:15 (KJV) A continual dropping in a very rainy day and a contentious woman are alike.
The reason why the man should run, because that attitude is design to make the man act uncalculated. He flip, or freak out and give her one slap, she fell down and her head hit the wall. She died, now! He does not know what to do, some men freak out again and hide the body. Learn this, once a woman is angry with a man, the man should take himself out of her, and take himself out of her home and out of her life. Have a place of retreat.
Retreating From The Man.
Women sometime retreated from a man after making love to him. What she is doing now creating more desires in the man. However, some men misunderstand this, and think that she found somebody else. No! This is another part of the female love philosophy. Women love to put on a show, and sometime speak in ironically.
Sometime Only Jesus Can Help Us
Acts 4:12 (KJV)Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
Romans 5:6 (KJV) For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. Romans 5:7 (KJV) For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die. Romans 5:8 (KJV) But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. Romans 5:9 (KJV) Much more then, being now justified by his blood, we shall be saved from wrath through him. Romans 5:10 (KJV) For if, when we were enemies, we were reconciled to God by the death of his Son, much more, being reconciled, we shall be saved by his life. Romans 5:11 (KJV) And not only so, but we also joy in God through our Lord Jesus Christ, by whom we have now received the atonement.
Matthew 6:33-AV But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.
Isaiah 55:6-AV Seek ye the LORD while he may be found, call ye upon him while he is near: Isaiah 55:7-AV Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts: and let him return unto the LORD, and he will have mercy upon him; and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon.
The Bearer's Of The "Mind Sword"
